Spoke w/ 16 owners last week. Most would rather close than change a thing.
This is a bit long but would love to hear thoughts. I'm always thinking about how a business becomes transferable through the systems it's built.
After a few days talking to owners last week, lack of systems is not the real blocker I'm seeing. And I hate to say it, but I think it's too late for a lot of them. Not because they can't make changes and sell down the road, but because they don't feel any urgency to. It's a contradiction because they want to retire now, but they won't make the changes that would let them walk away with a few bucks. So eventually most will just close, and walk away with nothing.
None of the ones I spoke to last week had real systems, none had documented processes, and their customer relationships lived entirely in the owner's head. I expected that from some of them.
What surprised me the most was how little they wanted to change any of it. The stubbornness was mind blowing, but at the same time it makes complete sense that they're protective of their legacy. Quite a few of my family members ran Main Street businesses over decades. All of them profitable. All of them stubborn as hell. All of them closed without ever selling. See where I'm going?
One owner of a custom furniture business I spoke to Friday, 42 years in, told me he'd take a number well below what his earnings could justify, as long as the buyer promised to "do it how I do." He'd rather close the doors than sell to someone who'd change it. And he meant it. He actually got frustrated when I showed him benchmarks and told him he could get more by making a couple basic changes.
So the thing that would make his business sellable, systematizing it, getting it to run without him, is the exact thing he's spent 42 years refusing to do. The business is his whole identity. He felt that asking him to make it transferable is asking him to make himself replaceable. And on top of it all, he doesn't want anyone to even know he's thinking of selling. Which I obviously understand, and isn't uncommon. He's convinced it would erode the trust his customers have, and that trust is in him, not the business.
It makes me question how much of the owner dependence I'd normally think about as operational risk is really psychological. Small dataset, but data nonetheless, and it points to the transition mattering way more than the multiple on these deals.
The part I actually want to hear about is the letting go. Has anyone here gotten an owner whose whole identity was the business to actually let go of it? From what I saw last week, most of them never will.